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[lollardfish]

The food issues with Nico have hit a crisis point. It's very upsetting and we're seeking professional help.

This is the first time I've felt completely helpless in regards to Nico in a long time.

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[lollardfish.livejournal.com]

Yeah.

I'm stressed both about dinner in an hour and dinner in four years, at the same time.

It's dis-pleasant.

I don't know how to not think such thoughts when they seem so evidently true. I try to de-emphasize each meal time and just set him down with smiles and music (not so much today because of the 9 hours of whining).

It will be interesting to see how he handles Laura over the next week, since a lot of the problem is presumably contained in our parental-child dynamic.

[minnehaha.livejournal.com]

It would help me to avoid such thoughts by replacing them with, "this is how we're handling this phase as he grows up" and "if he is choosing his own foods, that's a step forward," and "I better wipe up that oatmeal before it hardens into a crust that's tougher than cement."

Plus thinking about the excellent meal of my own I'll be having after I'm done feeding him.

K.

[lollardfish.livejournal.com]

mmmm ... hot dogs.

[minnehaha.livejournal.com]

:-)

K.