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Dec. 14th, 2008 12:25 pmThere's a post out there today of a "friend" (not someone I actually know that well) who has been out of touch with LJ.
He's asking for updates because, "If there's something you've been assuming I know because you wrote about it on LJ and in the past I've reliably read your LJ, you might want to point it out to me. Alternately, you can just regard me as the retard in the corner who never knows what's going on."
I find this metaphor infuriating and offensive, although I know that as with most such things he means nothing by it. What's the best response? Ignore? Post something publicly in comments? Send a private email? Write an LJ post of my own about how offensive I find it and hope someone reads it?
What do you think?
Edit - I posted what I hope was both a polite and firm comment.
He's asking for updates because, "If there's something you've been assuming I know because you wrote about it on LJ and in the past I've reliably read your LJ, you might want to point it out to me. Alternately, you can just regard me as the retard in the corner who never knows what's going on."
I find this metaphor infuriating and offensive, although I know that as with most such things he means nothing by it. What's the best response? Ignore? Post something publicly in comments? Send a private email? Write an LJ post of my own about how offensive I find it and hope someone reads it?
What do you think?
Edit - I posted what I hope was both a polite and firm comment.
anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-14 08:14 pm (UTC)Just to make it clear, the "anonymous" comment was from me, Lakyboy_55.
Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-14 11:31 pm (UTC)Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-15 02:31 am (UTC)You can mitigate this to some extent by clicking the "remember me" checkbox when you login, but really, it's best to look at the login box whenever you first hit your friends page.
Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-15 04:40 am (UTC)Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-15 04:59 am (UTC)Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-15 01:26 pm (UTC)Re: anonymous...
Date: 2008-12-15 02:45 pm (UTC)